Lecture: Male and Female Communication Patterns

This lecture is talking about the how male and female use their word to communicate. A lot of experiments have been done in order to find out the differences between male communication and female communiction such how they start, end, present and argue. Then, the Conversational Coherence experiment was set up. The pairs of friends from different grade were sellected and were given 20 minutes conversation. As the result they found that the young boy group didn't talk too much and they couldn't staystill but the girl were paying attention to each other and describe all details about the topic. At the age of 11 to 12 the boys have many topics to discuse while the girls have only afew topics. At the age of 16 to 17 the boys weren't accept others problem they were trying to talk only about their problem but the girl focus on one topic and tried to listen about one problem. The last pairs is the pairs of the age 25, the guys don't have personal reflection but the ladies have personal reflection. According to the TV Dabate we can see that the man are always want to talk alot even they are the experts. The Audience also want to listen to the men, when men say that they are experts, people believe, but when women define themselves as experts, no body believe.The statues also difind the differences between Male Communication and female Communication. When female is the boss, her suggestions are hard to be accepted. However, when the man make suggestions, everybody accept. After I studied this lecture,i found that there are many differences between male and female communication. They all have different styles to communicate, sometimes when the girl use the same expession as the boy but the meaning is not the same. Also the men word are easy to be accepted but the girl ideas are hard to be accepted. All the styles that people use to communicate have advantages. Sometimes, we can take advantages on one style over another style.